As a male, I can tell you that, finding a woman who knows what she wants and is alive in the field of her satisfaction, is one of the most attractive qualities she can possess. The reason is selfish - I don't want a woman who is going to mope around, complaining about life and feeling that everything is pointless and ruined. A woman who has found her voice, her path or her passion and is physically undesirable is worth more than a physically beautiful woman...

To KNOW GOD is to KNOW true LOVE! The desire for sexual relations is a gift from God to glorify HIM. It brings together two spirits, two souls, two bodies as ONE! It entangles those two souls in whatever state that they are in when they come together. They become embroiled in one anothers stuff. If someone you meet whether of the same or opposite sex mirrors your views it draws you together. But that does not mean that you will always be attracted to each other and are meant for each other. One or both may grow and grow apart! Hence to engage in sexual union is extremely harmful because the separating again causes deep tears in the soul. And then one usually is left bewildered!

This never happens when you seek God with all of your heart. God will never leave nor forsake you nor will He ever abandon you for someone else and God will fulfill all your hearts desires for companionship.